Monday 25 February 2013

The ways

Ok, let's go for the final posts! One your-say and one piece of news left. Hopefully, this is not going to take too much time.
I'll try to gather my last forces to leave you with a good final impression! So then, have your drink by your side, sit down or lay on your bed, just try to relax and let the heavy thoughts go away... Because my thoughts are going to reserve a little place up there in your thinking machine... Maybe.

We live in a society with many rules and we are more than aware of that. It is not only the mode we should interact with other individuals what we're being told, they also try to arrange our way of life.
I can't remember how many times I heard sentences like "Today, practically the only possibility to have success in life is to have good studies."
But not everyone fits in this plan. Not everyone is able to obtain a title of a higher level. Or not everyone wants to. I'm quite sure there are many people who can't find the proper career for what they really like to do. There may be many people who just don't want to study because they can't find the sense in doing it.
Most of us likely have/had/will have problems in choosing our way in life. Right now I'm going through this age. Me and, presumably, the majority of students in my school grade.
I'm quite a lucky boy as for this issue, I never had big problems with school and I think there are many things we're learning right now which are of my interest. But how to decide?
There are so many possibilities... And at the same time, there are so few ones...
I mean, I could choose between many different things, but then, if I really think more accurately about it, just a few ways are really of my interest to immerse myself completely into them. And then there are other ways which strike me with a double-edged sword. They seem so exciting, so interesting, so big, so important that they start to frighten me.

But you know something? I don't care.

Nobody can tell what I can't do. I am the only one to determine whether I am able to do something.
I am the only one to decide the way I'll follow eventually. And what's best, it's never too late to change your mind! Our society tries to tell us that we have to decide well in the first place, because we will have a very hard time to change afterwards.
However, we mustn't allow them to tell us what we have to do!
That doesn't mean we have to go around like an animal and do just, you know, everything we want. We men would go very crazy in that case...

What's important, we need to have faith in ourselves that we're able to do anything we want. Some of us are fortunate and have very good friends or other important people who always support us in our way. But if we believe in ourselves, we can move mountains (but please don't go to the next mountain and try, just a metapher... I think metapher is nominated as my new favourite word).

No matter what way we choose, we choose the right one.
In the end, our life is nothing more than a long journey, with happy moments and sad ones. A journey where, in the best case, we see so many different things of the world, of our surroundings. And this, ironically, leads us to finally know ourselves, who we really are.
A long journey we should enjoy, because if the afterlife theories are wrong, we only have one life to live. And this life is more precious than any money we could ever posess.
So go out and face the challenges, if you really want to be happy, you will be happy. Make use of the things you learn for yourself and attract the luck! Do what you like, there are so many different ways of living... And if you don't find the right one for you between the ones they recommend you, then invent your own one! Nothing is impossible.
And as you may know, I'm none of these creepy hyper-religious cult guys who always tell these brainwashing things to melt your neurones down.
I tell you these things because we always look for something to give us a little piece of strength, the piece we need to go on for the next few day or weeks. And maybe I could give you some strength and hope.
And now do yourself a little favour, go to your preferred restaurant or do your favourite sport or whatever you like to do, you deserve it ;)

3 comments:

  1. OMG!! That was SO inpiring!

    My thoughts during the reading:
    1st paragraph: (just laughing)
    2nd: he is so right! Everyone: listen to him!
    And the just: inpiration and aanting to run through a green field with a warm breeze and scream: FREEDOM.

    really good post! :)

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  2. then*
    wanting*

    (I told you... my computer does't work so well)

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    1. Wow, now these were some nice words :D
      I'm glad you were inspired by my post, since it was intented to be a motivating speech (although it actually reflects my true thoughts...)

      Thank you very much :)

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