News: Nintendo apologizes for games' same-sex slight

I read that the other day on one of my games news websites, but I just found this on CNN (as it seems it's become a big thing) and I thought I should comment on that one. DON'T WORRY, THIS POST IS NOT SPECIFICALLY ABOUT GAMES DESPITE THE TITLE.

It's-a-me! The link to the news!

I'll sum this up quickly to proceed to my own thoughts. Basically, Nintendo, a video game company as you all probably know, released a certain game some months ago which was called "Tomodachi Life". It is a life simulator, in a similar manner like The Sims. However, many fans complained that it was not possible to have homosexual relationships in the game although the game focuses (among other things) on relationships, creating families, etc. while other games like The Sims feature this option. It is arguable if the lack of gay and lesbian relationships was the result of the company's stance regarding the topic or if its just fruit of the difference of the status of the polemic topic in the different cultures (note that equality and rights for homosexuals has been an important topic in the Western world lately).

Now that it's been confirmed that the game will get released in Europe and the United States as well, Nintendo decided to publish an official apologise. They explain that they can't change this feature without reprogramming almost the whole game, but that they pledge to consider the players' wishes for future games and that they strive to design products that enable all players to be represented better.

From here on, my own opinion:

Ok, so far so good. Now, be honest. Having read this introduction, do you think there's any reason for anyone to be furious? Anyone? Even the homosexual fraction that was upset about the missing feature wasn't, in fact, THAT upset.

"The situation wouldn't be as big of a deal if it weren't for the fact that relationships and marriage are a huge part of the game," Marini said

"[...] Not being able to date and marry the gender that I'm attracted to in real life really takes all of the immersion and fun out of it for me."

Marini has specifically said he's not calling for a boycott of the game, saying it would do more harm than good.

What I can see here is a protest, but as mentioned above, nobody is trying to boycott the game nor Nintendo. And that's absolutely OK. But then you see comments like this:

By the user dcj91x:

I'm still upset that Nintendo isn't letting Mario and Luigi have an incestuous homosexual relationship in the Mario games... I mean really Until they change that I think everyone who has a loving relationship with their brother should stop buying all mario games!!! Seriously though Articles like this want to attack nintendo but seem to not care that Nintendo has right as well and are sticking to "THEIR" morals. Should everyone give up on what they believe because someone else believes something else? If so maybe we should start having goat sacrifices instead of paying taxes? .. No, articles like tese are just attacking a company that is standing their ground for what they believe in. If someone doesn't like the game the way it is intended to be made.. you don't have to play it, or you can make your own. I hear Nintendo is willing to work with Indie developers. Heck Conception 2 on both the Vita and 3DS lets you make babies with guys.

At least someone hit the point; by the user A E:

Equating homosexuality to incest is the trademark of the uneducated fundie.

Another "great" comment:

Based on this article and the actions of most homosexuals, i've come to the conclusion that they're the ones who are uneducated. Wanting to change everything under the sun to fit them? What's next a gay superman, a gay batman, a gay ralph cramden? Don't be stupid. If a company wants to create a game their way, you don't have to buy it or play it. It's a game not a law.

I only want to judge this particular case. And in this particular case, homosexuals complained about a game that consciously thematises relationships as a main element of the game. I believe that it's only fair to include both hetero- and homosexual couples. A part from taking away the possible immersion and identification for players that are actually gay or lesbian themselves, it's also just a missing feature for any player who would like to create a homosexual character in their game. Because, in my eyes, a tolerant player is completely indifferent about the feature and should even welcome it because after all, it's just one more possibility of playing the game. And that is good. If you play a football game, isn't it just good if there are more football teams available even if not everybody wants to use them? (As long as this doesn't obstruct other aspects of the game, for example by straining the games' memory capacity).
Nintendo apologised for not having done that from the very beginning, promises to care about it in the next titles and there the story should reach its end.

But then the media comes and I read news titles like this one in the BBC:

Nintendo says 'No' to gay game characters

Who on Earth said 'No' to anything? They said that they couldn't patch the game afterwards. That's all. I firmly believe that all the arguments about 'gay people trying to change everything under the sun to fit them' are plainly ignorant. 

We're talking about a particular case where relationships are the central element of the game. Isn't it a natural choice to include different possibilites of relationships?

I mean, I am not interested in these kinds of games and even if I was, I would buy the game either way, with or without homosexual couples in it, since it doesn't concern me personally.

What I actually do find worrying are the reactions, mostly coming from the people against the implementation of gay/lesbian relationships. The majority of them seems to apply their general disagreement regarding the fight for equalism of homosexual people and don't even think for a single instant about the validity of their statements in this particular case. 

And this, ladies and gentlemen, is exactly as "extremist" as the actions of gay/lesbian extremists (whom I don't support either, of course). It's exactly this attitude that prevents us from progressing (compare that to the way the Spanish government is handling abortion).


If anybody has the time and is interested in the topic, I invite you to comment on this post and tell me your opinion about this story (I'm pretty sure I'll receive like ln(1) comments) 

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New words I've learnt:

pledge

strive

stance

Podcast on "What money can't buy. The moral limits on markets"

listen to ‘Blog post, what money can't buy’ on Audioboo

Should everything be up for sale? Are there civic goods that money can't buy?

At the end of his speech, Dr. M. Sandel leaves these questions open for our own deliberation.

Well, I think money shouldn't be able to buy anything. In an ideal society, money should be nothing more than an instrument, a media that enables easy exchange of properties. After all, that is the very reason why money was invented in the first place. In ancient times, it would have been difficult for me to exchange 2 cows for 5 sheep since the other person had to be interested in my cows. So, if my "business companion" already has 5 cows and is looking for hens instead... What do we do? Money is used precisely for that purpose. It serves as a universal tool for trading. And maybe that's where the problems started. Money was supposed to be a tool, but has ended up being a goal. That is why I'd never state as my life dream "getting rich". Of course I appreciate having money, but only because it enables me to enjoy things that I can buy with money. On the other side, without money you can't really live the way our society is built up. But this is a consequence of our system that everyone has to go to work, thus doing their part for the society.
In the end, I think there definitely are some civic goods that money can't buy. Let's take the example of a marriage. There are marriages (possibly more than we'd expect) that are only based on financial reasons. But the difference is: you can buy the marriage, but you can never buy the love of the other person. You can apply that logic to anything. You may buy the loyalty of your people, but once the money stops flowing, the loyalty ceases as well. And that means that you didn't buy their loyalty, but the illusion of loyalty. Civic goods can only be achieved by genuinely human goods like passion, honesty or willingness.

I'm the one who knocks (BaBr2)

Hello! If this is the first post you're reading about Breaking Bad... STOP, ok, STOP! (inside joke)

Nah, but I'm serious, please read the Bromine Barium post before.

You know what's great? BaBr2 actually is a chemical compound... Hihihi.

Ok, so, what did I like about Breaking Bad?

• The characters: The series is absolutely driven by the characters and their evolution from episode to episode. They are all surprisingly credible characters. At no time, you will have the feeling that some of their actions feel out of place or forced by the plot. What's more, you will begin to understand their motives for their actions. If you read my post about Death Note (not that it's about 3 centuries old by now), it's a similar concept. Walter White is, at the beginning, no bad guy at all. But the circumstances make him change. He will do some serious bad stuff and what's great and a little frightening is that you will... kind of understand him. But not only Walter evolves. As the episodes pass you will notice how everyone reacts to the events. The psychological aspect of the series is really great, because every now and then you will start intuiting an alteration in someone's behaviour and later on, when they do something that proves it you'll feel like "I knew they would end up doing that!" Nonetheless, that doesn't mean that the series has no suspense... One specific aspect about the characters that I'd like to point out is the relationship between the two main characters Walter and Jesse. These two will go through quite some problems. On a sidenote, the two actors that represent them (Bryan Cranston and Aaron Paul) have become very good friends in real life. 

Somehow they do fit together well and somehow they don't. Walter (left) and Jesse (right) experience each other's good and bad sides in the most dramatic situations and that puts their relationship as a team on the border

• The villians: Technically, the villians are also part of the characters... but they deserve a paragraph for themselves. Just imagine. You live in a state that shares a border with Mexico. You produce drugs. But there are those guys  that have been producing drugs before you. You better don't mess with them... They aren't precisely known for being in favour of a free market.  Especially one of Walter's enemies (I said villians earlier, but the concept of good and evil is much more complex here) is incredibly iconic. I won't spoil you anything about that person, but there will be a lot of epic moments, I guarantee it. Oh, right, the epic moments...

• The action and the badass moments: Since Walter has to deal with some pretty hard guys, he comes up with many ingenious and equally crazy plans to take action by himself. For getting inspired for this post, I watched a video of the list of the Top 10 most memorable moments in Breaking Bad. Before they revealed the number 1 on their list, they made a short tribute to all of those moments that didn't make it to the video, despite being unforgettable. And it's true. You could do a Top 50 countdown and you wouldn't even nearly cover up all the cool moments. When the conflicts reach their climax, there's so much tension you could it with the knife. I haven't EVER, EVER been STARRING at the screen with THAT MUCH SUSPENSE. And you know what's best?

• The series gets better every season: No TV series nor film trilogy nor game franchise I've ever watch/played managed to do this. But Breaking Bad does. The series has a good start in season 1, leaves you without fingernails in season 2, complicates things positively in season 3, blows your mind in season 4 and season 5... Well, to be honest, both season 4 and 5 are practically perfect to me. So, at the end of season 4 you won't be able to deny that this is the best thing you've ever seen in your entire life and afterwards it... Let me explain that with an old gamers' quote:

Sean Connery approved

 But of course, there's one problem about getting better with every season (let's go for the cons):

• The first season is the weakest one: Why is that a problem? It is because, when you start watching like me having heard from all the sides that this is the best series ever produced, after the first few episode you feel like: "Ok, this is actually quite cool. But that good? I hope it gets better." And holy Jesus Christ it DOES get better. It just feels a little slow in the beginning, but at the latest when you reach season 2, you will be totally hooked.  

• Uncomfortable family scenes: Since Walter's family begins to fall apart once he starts to disappear without any warning in order to cook meth, these scenes are absolutely necessary to make you understand how the characters feel. But the thing is, the characters feel uncomfortable in these moments; and so will you. In season 1 this has the biggest effect since there's not that much action yet. Just so you know what I mean, there's another list on the Internet called 'Breaking Bad': 8 unbearably tense dinner scenes. I think I've made my point.

• It eventually ends: Breaking Bad has the ending it deserves. You will be satisfied after the last episode. But that also means that it'll make you sad that it's already over. They're even planning to make a spin-off sequel which will be centered on a character called Saul Goodman who first appears in season 2. It will tell his story before the events of Breaking Bad. While he definitely is a character with a lot of potential, I'm not sure if I like the idea; yet.

And now, I am going to reveal you the true ending of Breaking Bad. At first I thought I shouldn't spoil, but I just can't stay quiet. In the end, Walter gets sick of drug making and of his family and friends and Albuquerque and he finally decides to leave everything behind and move away and start a new family. These are the events seen in the classic series "Malcolm in the Middle":

So he doesn't want to do this anymore...

And then he creates a new family. And really flourishes in that new role. That's why he's looking younger here. Only that.

Sorry for spoiling.




And finally, why should every single one of you reading this post give Breaking Bad a try?

Case 1, you're a male person: If you're a man, then it's easy. Let me repeat: there are drugs, there are badass villians and quotes, there are explosions, WHAT ELSE DO YOU WANT? (only a few boobs in no more than one or two episodes though, sorry)

Case 2, you're a female person: You will love it as well, because this series has set a new standard of gripping. It's is actually more than some gunshots and explosions (in fact, it doesn't have THAT many of them). There are so many shocking moments, things will happen that you didn't expect and it's so much fun to try to analyse the relationship between the different characters. Also, when it comes to the most critical conflicts, the series gets quite emotional. Both men and women are bound to cry at one episode or another (of course I didn't).


And I forgot one last thing: there's a lot of Spanish talking. It's so hilarious when you understand them without any need of subtitles. It adds another layer of depth to the series, so if you're following my blog it's very probably that you also understand Spanish and that's just another reason TO LEAVE EVERYTHING AS IT IS AND START WATCHING Breaking Bad RIGHT NOW!
or at least after finishing final exams

Okay, now it's the last thing. They're making a Southamerican version of Breaking Bad: Metástasis. It's... It's a violation, no, IT'S RAPING the original series IN THE FACE. God... Here's the trailer that tells you the story of the first two episodes more or less (NOTE THAT BREAKING BAD IS ACTUALLY LIKE OVER NINE THOUSAND TIMES BETTER):

THERE ARE NO FREAKING CHEMICAL ELEMENTS WITH THE SYMBOLS "Wa" AND EVEN LESS "Él" WITH A FREAKING DIACRITIC

Bromine Barium

It had to come. It's been quite a time now, but Internet's still full of memes about it. This series is probably the first trend I had been following while it was still hyped in the media, since I came to Spain. And its awesomeness is never forgotten. It's Breaking Bad. Have a look at the images in the right order and after reading the last one click "play" on the video:

Okay, so this is something more difficult to handle... I'd love to talk about some story details that impressed me most, but I don't want to spoil the plot to anyone. One option would be doing one spoiler-free post (review-like) and then another one where I comment my favourite moments... But I prefer that anyone (so... about two or three people actually, in the best case) can read my post.

Having said that... Let's start to Break Baaaaaaaaaaad

The protagonist (or rather... antiprotagonist?) is the highschool chemistry teacher, Walther White, living in Albuquerque, New Mexico (and thus, a zone in America with many Latino drug mafias). He's one of those teachers that seem to love their subject with passion but no one takes them for serious. Walter is a character that, initially, stands out only because of his mediocrity. After school classes he goes on his part-time job in a car wash because his family needs the extra money. There, his boss is constantly complaining about him and the students that come with their cars make fun of him. On top of that, his son, Walter Jr., was born with cerebral palsy which manifests in speech difficulties and impaired motor control, which is why he has to walk with crutches. 

Oh. And his wife's an annoying b****. She's pregnant with a second child by the way.

In short: Walter's life is miserable.

What's the best "solution" for a miserable life? Terminal cancer. That's his diagnosis... And from that point onwards, Walter White slowly dies... While Heisenberg is being born.

Walter's brother-in-law, who is a cop working for the DEA (drug enforcement administration), decides to bring Walter along on one of his operations. Whilst Walter is waiting in the car, he observes how a young man escapes from the house where the operation takes place. The young man is Jesse Pinkman, a former student of Walter. 

Since Walter is confronted with death, his worries for his family increase drastically and that finally drives him into making a deal with Jesse. Walter is going to cook methamphetamine (crystal meth) and Jesse takes care of the selling.

The first attempts to become established in drug trading will still originate some pathetic scenes, but soon Walter will start to change heavily. He becomes more and more determined about his actions. It turns out that, due to the special chemical methods Walter uses, his crystal meth is the purest on the market and has a unique blue colour. That gives him confidence, despite all the obstacles to keep hiding his second life, until he begins to make himself a name in the drug scene under the pseudonym of "Heisenberg".

Of course, not everybody will like the presence of a new cook on the market...

And so, the story unfolds. And God, it's such a well written plot, really. In the next post I'll explain the pros and (minuscule) contras of the series (in my own opinion) and why all of you should give this one a try.

Emanuela

I'd love to know what you were expecting from this post after reading only the title...

I'm pretty sure you already knew that it could only be... A German song! Of course! This is like 2+2=4, irrefutable, throughout logical stuff.

Emanuela by Fettes Brot ("Fettes Brot", the group's name, actually means fatty bread or also cool bread, since in 90's German slang language "fett" was used as "cool" or "nice")

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Alle Mädels alle Jungs sagen "No!" / All the girls all the guys say "No!"

Deines Lebens wirst du nicht mehr froh! / You won't enjoy your life anymore!

Was weißt denn du von Liebe? / What do YOU know about love?

Von Liebe weißt du nichts! / You don't know anything about love!

Dich haben deine Gefühle / Your feelings [...]

Mal wieder ausgetrickst / Have fooled you again

Du hältst dich für gefährlich / You take yourself for dangerous

Doch siehst nicht die Gefahr / But you don't see the danger

Das hier ist die Geschichte / This is the story

Von Emanuela / Of Emanuela

Sie ist wie Fieber / She is like fever

Du willst sie wieder / You want her again

Das geht viel tiefer / It goes much deeper

Als alles andere jemals zuvor / Than anything ever before

Eben war's noch kochend heiß / It was just boiling hot
Und auf einmal wird es kalt wie Trockeneis / And then suddenly it turns cold as dry ice

Sie ist unglaublich / She is incredible

Sie macht dich traurig / She makes you sad

Dein Style hilft auch nicht / Your style doesn't help either

Hau ab sonst hast du alles verloren! / Get away or you've lost everything!

Alter, bitte glaube uns / Dude, please believe us

So wie dir ging es hier schon tausend Jungs / Already a thousand guys felt like you here

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Alle Mädels alle Jungs sagen "No!" / All the girls all the guys say "No!"

Deines Lebens wirst du nicht mehr froh! / You won't enjoy your life anymore!

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Alle Mädels alle Jungs sagen "No!" / All the girls all the guys say "No!"

Deines Lebens wirst du nicht mehr froh! / You won't enjoy your life anymore!

Jetzt sitzt du draußen auf der Treppe vor ihrem Haus du kleiner Gangster / Now you're sitting outside on the stairs in front of her house you little gangster

Lässig rauchst du Zigarette und wirfst Steine an ihr Fenster / Languidly you're smoking cigarettes and throwing stones at her window

Als du sie gesehen hast war hier im Viertel Straßenfest / When you saw her there was the street party in this quarter

Es war ihr Anblick der dich seitdem keine Nacht mehr schlafen lässt / It was her sight that didn't let you sleep any night since then

Emanuela / Emanuela

Emanuela / Emanuela

Emanuela / Emanuela

What goes on? / Was geht ab?

Kannst du dir das bitte mal vorstellen? / Could you please imagine that?

Emanuela / Emanuela

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Alle Mädels alle Jungs sagen "No!" / All the girls all the guys say "No!"

Deines Lebens wirst du nicht mehr froh! / You won't enjoy your life anymore!

Ein, zwei, drei Monate nur zu Haus / One, two, three months just at home

Freitagnacht und du gehst mal wieder aus / Friday night and you're going out again

Dein Fehler. Wer steht da? / Your mistake. Who's standing there?

Emanuela / Emanuela

Noch bevor's mit euch beiden angefangen hat macht sie Schluss / Before you two even started she breaks up

Und eure einzige Berührung bleibt ein kurzer Abschiedkuss / And a short goodbye kiss stays your only touch

Er betet und hofft, dass sie ihn erhört / He prays and hopes that she answers (his prayer)
Er betet und hofft, dass sie ihn erhört / He prays and hopes that she answers (his prayer)
Er betet und hofft, dass sie ihn erhört / He prays and hopes that she answers (his prayer)

Was weißt denn du von Liebe? / What do YOU know about love?

Von Liebe weißt du nichts! / You don't know anything about love!

Dich haben deine Gefühle / Your feelings [...]

Mal wieder ausgetrickst / Have fooled you again

Du hältst dich für gefährlich / You take yourself for dangerous

Doch siehst nicht die Gefahr / But you don't see the danger

Das hier ist die Geschichte / This is the story

Von Emanuela / Of Emanuela

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Lass die Finger von Emanuela / Keep the hands from Emanuela

Alle Mädels alle Jungs sagen "No!" / All the girls all the guys say "No!"

Deines Lebens wirst du nicht mehr froh! / You won't enjoy your life anymore!

Youtubing

Since the early 2000's (no, it's not that I am exaggerating time-related aspects because I've just turned 18...)

Again.

Since the early 2000's, many companies like Google, Facebook and... Well, basically these two gained a lot of... money and power. And presence! Yes, they're "more" omnipresent than any God of any culture, which is, in fact, a paradox in itself. Think about it. But not too much, time is money.

Youtube is one of these platforms. Now, in fact, Youtube is a part of Google. Notice how almost everything lately is part of: a) Google b) Facebook or c) Disney? Yes, I'm looking at you WhatsApp. Yes, I'm looking at you LucasArts. And Marvel... EVEN OCULUS RIFT! You don't know what Oculus Rift is? Look it up. And be not surprised.

But Youtube isn't only a part of Google now... It's a part of our life! It's there the whole time. Many of us spend a huge amount of our free time watching videos on Youtube. We love to share funny videos, it's a good way to watch and listen to the videoclips of our favourite songs (and for discovering now ones!), yes, we even watch Youtube videos in school classes! And I'm not only talking about English class (English teachers: always eager to implement new technologies in class), but also History, Physics, Philosophy...

Youtube grants us easy access to an unimaginable amount of audiovisual material of all kinds. And let's be honest: Watching a Youtube video is much funnier and less tiring than reading boring blog posts, isn't it?

And you know what kind of videos are the most popular and successful on Youtube? Music? Check. Comedy? Check. Stupid people running against walls and hitting others with footballs on their weak spots? Well, check, but that was rather a big thing years ago...

There's one more thing and it's conquering Youtube more and more everyday. A little hint: what am I always talking about in the end because I'm a damn nerd?

GAMES.

Let's Play videos are one of the biggest and weirdest Internet phenomena in my opinion (and there are looooooooots of Internet phenomena... I might do a post on that later).

What are Let's Play videos you may ask (if you do, first of all: welcome to 2014, just kidding).

In a nutshell: A guy (or a girl, but mainly a guy... in fact, I believe I haven't seen any girl doing this... anyway) plays a video game and records it while he is commenting. That's it. Sounds kind of dumb, doesn't it?

It did sound dumb to me as well when the first Let's Play videos became popular. And consider that I've always been a gamer. So it's not something that I had to support for obvious reasons. As I've always been, I was rather critical regarding that new trend.

Today I think it's amazing that there are people out there who actually make a living thanks to these videos!

What's so good about Let's Play videos? Here is what I believe:

1. It's funny if the person who's commenting says funny things, has crazy reactions to the in-game events, etc.

2. Gamers have a special need of community feeling. Gamers are, although right now much less than before, a marginal group of society. There are still those stamps on gaming like "stupid", "unnecessary", "mind-dulling", etc. People who don't play games on a regular basis themselves don't usually appreciate games as a "new" (since the 70's, guys) kind of art. So gamers need to relate with other gamers so they won't feel isolated. And Youtube is a great place to do this.

3. It's a great alternative to experience a game if you're not sure about buying it or if you can't afford it (because of money, because it's not available in your region/on your platform/whatever).

And I am even considering starting my own Youtube channel one day... With Let's Plays and comedy videos and countdowns (Top 10 "X") and some intellectual stuff.

That is the great thing about Youtube. It enables you to entertain people with... pretty much whatever you want.

One of my favourite channels on Youtube is The Game Theorists. The main "show" of that channel is called "Game Theory" and its initial idea was that each episode features an analysis of a specific game aspect applying real life science. Gaming+Science? I had to love it. 

You can find episodes like:

- The paradoxes of time travelling in the game "Chrono Trigger"

- The physics behind the "Fart Rocket" attack of Wario in the Smash Bros. series

- Best boobs in gaming

Wait... I'm not contributing to improve the overall image of gamers at all...

Later, the show had more episodes that reflected about gaming in general. In one video for example, the hoster tries to find out why we play video games, the psychological reason behind.

So I wanted to show you a video from that channel. Its title is "Game Theory: How PewDiePie Conquered YouTube". 

PewDiePie is currently the youtuber with most suscribers (the video I'm about to show you is almost one year old). He does different kinds of videos but he is also specialised in Let's Plays. And he had an incredible success doing that. MatPat, the guy talking in this video, will explain how PewDiePie became so popular. In order to do that, he exposes the mechanics of the Youtube machine. I thought it could be interesting for anyone to see how the Youtube ranking system works. Don't worry, there are only SOME game-related inside jokes in the video.

Now the only question is... When I start my own channel... Should I speak in English? Or in Spanish? Or in German? Or... Catalan?

I have a weird accent when I talk in Spanish, I don't like the German Youtube community and Catalan.. Well.. I would, but I'd like to become popular all over the world... It has to be English then I guess. I better improve my oral skills then!

tehehehe...

18 years of learning: a brief retrospective

I've recently turned 18... Let me state the obvious: I haven't reached maturity yet. Then again, do we ever "reach" maturity? Is there one day where you're "fine" with your opinions and your vision of the world? Probably not. I guess real maturity is just another ideal.

Nonetheless, I have learned a few things in my life. It's no secret anymore, no great intellectual insight: school doesn't teach us half of the things that we actually need to learn for the real life. We can try to change that or at least improve it... But isn't the challenge to learn all these things by oneself a big step to become more mature as well? That's two possibles ways of seeing it and I think both sides got their points. And that's one of those big lessons that we need to learn:

You can't make everyone happy. Ever. You can try as hard as you like, but in the eeeeeend it doesn't eeeeeeven maaatter. Wait a minute...

You'll have to excuse me. In fact, I didn't want to be that "pessimistic" and say that it wouldn't even matter. 

It does matter, of course it does! Trying to make other people happy is a good thing, of course it is! But if you insist too much, if you try to bring all the people's thoughts and opinions on a common thread, you will end up hurting someone. In the worst case scenario, you will hurt the ones you care most about. This is because people are different. This is because you're not the only one here.

People are different. Men and women are different. Black people and white people and Asian people and Germans and Spaniards and Northern Spaniards and Southern Spaniards; they are all different from each other. We don't have to pretend that we're all equal. It's good to fight for the same level of chances and the same level of rights for everyone, but don't mix up equal life quality with equal people.

It's not about equalism, but about tolerance. It's not only about knowing that we're different, but about accepting that we're all different. Diversity is great. We don't have to be afraid of other lifestyles or other opinions. Everybody acts the way they act for some reason. We don't have to want the same. We don't have to look for the same. 

You can even learn something from the people you hate most. The ones you agree the least with. Because learning something from someone is not the same as being taught something from someone.

We always want to be taught and many of us always want to teach. But we need to use our own mind. Everyone. Nobody told our far ancestors how to do a fire. They observed nature and learned from it. Nature didn't teach them.

You're not the only one here. You're not the one to save every single person. That doesn't mean that you can't have any ambitions. No! But no one is flawless. Neither am I, neither are you. Neither are your parents nor your teachers. And that's fine. Even considering that, we can all learn from each other. That's how life works. You won't always succeed and you won't always be right. You won't always be happy and you won't always know what to do. This applies to absolutely everyone.

Stay strong and keep appreciating your life. Self-pity won't take you anywhere. Trying to cover your problems and defects won't either. Accept your problems, accept yourself, then you can truly accept others. Then you can do your best to improve and move on. Never stop moving on!

Even what I am doing right now is simply writing down my own thoughts, hoping to inspire at least one of the readers of this post.

So, at the end of the day, you will keep making mistakes and you will keep experiencing things that you don't like. But none of them, no matter how big they are, none of them is a reason to stop hoping. Keep your faith. Your faith in yourself. Your faith in the ones you love. Your faith in the things you love. You need to be strong. There's no one out there who can be strong for you. It's you. No excuses.

And now I shut up :)